If you suspect that your husband isn’t really loving, or that he may be disloyal, there are telltale signs to look out for when reading your relationship status. Here are eight ways to know if your husband isn’t truly loving you back.
The signs he shows are just too good to be true
When you first met your husband, he was so loving and attentive. He always remembered the little things about you and always made sure to show you how much he loved you. But now, it seems like his love has changed. He's more distant and doesn't seem to care about you like he used to. How can you be sure that he still loves you? There are certain signs that can tell you whether or not your husband is truly in love with you:
1) Does he make time for you?
2) Does he make an effort to see what makes you happy?
3) Does he go out of his way to make sure that all of your needs are being met and wants are fulfilled?
4) Is there passion in the relationship at all times (even if it's just between two people who share a deep connection)?
He doesn’t want you to meet his friends
There could be a number of reasons why your husband doesn't want you to meet his friends. Maybe he's embarrassed by them, or he doesn't think they would approve of you. Perhaps he's worried that you'll find out something about him that he's keeping hidden. Or, it could be that he simply doesn't want to share his friends with you. Whatever the reason, it's a red flag that something isn't right. If you're in this situation, sit down and have an honest conversation with your husband about what you're feeling and what concerns you have. It might take some time and patience to get through the other side of this issue, but there are things that can be done. If you feel like your marriage has been going downhill for some time now, consider couples counseling as a way to address these issues and move forward together in love.
He doesn’t share any interest with you
Do you feel like you and your husband are on the same page when it comes to interests? If he doesn't share any of his hobbies or passions with you, it could be a sign that he's not as invested in the relationship as you are. He tells you everything about himself but not about his work: Is he being secretive about what goes on at work? Maybe there's something going on there that he wants to hide from you. He never helps around the house: Your spouse should want to help out around the house. Take note of how often they help out and make sure they're doing their fair share.
He fails at keeping promises
One way you can tell if your husband loves you is by looking at how well he keeps his promises. If he often fails to follow through on what he says he'll do, it's a sign that he doesn't value your relationship as much as he should. This can be frustrating and hurtful, but it's important to communicate with him about your feelings. If he's unwilling to change, it may be time to reconsider the future of your relationship. One way you can tell if your husband loves you is by looking at how well he keeps his promises. If he often fails to follow through on what he says he'll do, it's a sign that he doesn't value your relationship as much as he should. This can be frustrating and hurtful, but it's important to communicate with him about your feelings. How does this make you feel?
He constantly checks out other women and rates them on a scale
When you're out with your husband and he's constantly checking out other women and rating them on a scale, it can be tough to feel confident in his love for you. If you notice this behavior, talk to him about it and see what he says. If he dismisses your concerns or makes light of the situation, it could be a sign that he's not as invested in your relationship as you are. As always, communication is key. Try talking to him about how his comments make you feel and ask how he feels when you check out other men. It's important to find common ground so both parties can better understand each other's perspectives.
It might take some time, but you'll know your partner loves you when they want nothing more than for the two of you to stay together forever.
He doesn’t make an effort to listen when you talk
Your husband should be your best friend, and that starts with being a good listener. If he doesn’t make an effort to listen when you talk, it’s a sign that he doesn’t care about what you have to say. This can be frustrating, and can lead to feeling like you’re not being heard or valued. If you feel like your husband isn’t listening, try talking to him about it. Tell him how much it means to you that he listens when you need someone to talk too. Let him know how much better you feel after getting things off your chest. He will want to be the person who makes you happy and for the most part this is all we want in life, so do this for yourself first before considering anything else.
He constantly puts himself first
It can be easy to think that your husband doesn't love you if he constantly puts himself first. After all, it can feel like he's not thinking about your needs at all. However, it's important to remember that everyone has different love languages. So, just because your husband expresses love differently than you do, doesn't mean he doesn't love you. In fact, sometimes his selfish behavior may actually be a way of showing you how much he cares. If your husband always puts himself first and never seems to consider your feelings in the process, then this might be a sign that his love for you isn't as strong as it could be. When you're with him, do you ever get the feeling that he couldn't care less about what happens to you? Does it seem like he only wants what's best for him, but not necessarily what's best for both of you? If so, then these are all signs that his love for you might not be genuine.
